Sunday, March 20, 2005

Tell them U love them!

Communicate to children that you love and adore them fully. We do that with more than words, which is the least way but still important. We need to find ways and words to let ourchildren know that they are unconditionally loved. Care for them even when you forget how.

So remind them: "When I forgot in this way or in that way, my unconditional love for you is really what it is about."

Make sure that this is the reference point they have when you give up this day, that you can rest well, knowing the children know you love them. If you ever attempt to let go of this day and consider, "I don't know if they really know I love them," consider how you can get your love to them in some way. If nothing else, ask Allah to link their hearts. to you

Saturday, March 12, 2005

No male or female role at home?

In a marriage, there is nothing to say that one role isnecessarily "male" and one role is necessarily "female."There are common goals, and there are roles that supportthose goals. Either partner may fulfill any role. The roles may remain constant throughout a lifetime, or theymay shift many times; it doesn't matter. As long as each onegives 100 percent, the marriage is complete and is working.When you are married and are committed to the love you havefor your spouse, there is nothing you will not do, no roleyou will not take. With that attitude, your lover is lesslikely to make unloving demands upon you. So it's a two-waystreet.

Friday, March 11, 2005

How to Identify a Stroke

How to Identify a Stroke
Note from a friend: I wish I knew this several years ago when a friend was having a stroke at a clubhouse function and I didn't recognize it; just that something was wrong and did get a resident doctor in the hall and made other people aware, but unfortunately her husband listened to her and didn't get her to the hospital for a couple hours.
Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.
Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:
*Ask the individual to smile.
*Ask him or her to raise both arms.
*Ask the person to speak a simple sentence.
If he or she has trouble with any of these tasks, call 9-1-1 immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher. After discovering that a Group Of non-Medical Volunteers could identify facial weakness, arm weakness and speech problems, researchers urged the general public to learn the three questions. They presented their conclusions at the American Stroke Association's annual meeting last February. Widespread use of this test treatment of the stroke and prevent brain damage.
A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this e-mail sends it to 10 people you can bet that at least one life will be saved. Tell as many people as possible about this. It could save their lives! BE A FRIEND AND SEND THIS ARTICLE TO AS MANY FRIENDS AS POSSIBLE.